Working Together

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People rarely come to see me because of a diagnosis alone. More often, they come because something in their life is no longer working. A relationship has broken down, work has become overwhelming, their health has changed, or they feel stuck and don't know which way to turn. Sometimes there isn't a single event at all. Instead, there's a growing sense of feeling disconnected, exhausted, no longer like themselves, or quietly wondering why life feels so much harder than it seems to for everyone else. 

One of the reasons I enjoy general practice is that it allows me to step back and look at the whole picture. Psychological suffering rarely exists in isolation. It affects the way we think, sleep, move, relate to other people and make sense of our lives. Over time, I've come to see it less as a collection of symptoms and more as a disruption in a person's relationship with themselves, their past and the future they are trying to create.

That's the part I'm interested in exploring. I want to understand not just what's happening, but how you got here, what's keeping you here, and what needs to change for life to begin moving again.

Before we get to the deeper underlying issues,our work begins as good medicine should, with careful assessment. We'll often arrange blood tests or other investigations to exclude physical contributors, review your current medications and consider whether prescription medication, supplements or, where appropriate, plant-based treatments may have a role. Looking after your physical health isn't separate from mental health; it's one of the foundations upon which it rests.

Healing has an order.

For that reason, I almost always begin with the Foundations. Not because they're glamorous, but because they're necessary:  Routine, sleep, movement, nutrition, meaningful relationships, time in nature, learning to regulate your emotions. These are not simply healthy habits, they create the conditions in which the mind and body can begin to recover.

As those foundations strengthen, our conversations will naturally become deeper. We begin to notice recurring patterns, subconscious core beliefs, explore the assumptions you've carried about yourself and the world, and become curious about the ways you've learnt to cope. Many of those ways made perfect sense at the time of their origin, they were survival adaptations. The question isn't whether they were right or wrong; it's whether they're still helping you live the life you want today.

Sometimes healing means understanding and integrating parts of yourself that have been neglected or pushed aside. Sometimes it means recognising that an older version of yourself has done its job and no longer needs to lead your life. The goal isn't to erase the past, but to integrate it, so it no longer quietly dictates the future. Nearly always, the uncomfortable truth is, that you will need to grow into a new version of yourself.

I have borrowed ideas from many places. Modern psychology has taught me practical ways of helping people regulate emotions, challenge unhelpful thinking and develop healthier patterns of living. Existential thinkers have helped me think more deeply about suffering, responsibility and meaning. Philosophers such as the Stoics remind me that while we rarely choose what happens to us, we can choose how we respond. Carl Rogers taught me the importance of the therapeutic relationship. Carl Jung encouraged me to think about integration and becoming. Viktor Frankl reminded us that meaning can be found even in suffering, while Irvin Yalom explored the realities every human being must eventually face. None of these thinkers provide all the answers, but together they have shaped the way I think about medicine and the conversations I have with my patients.

My hope is that our work together is about more than simply reducing symptoms. While feeling better is important, the bigger goal is to help you understand yourself more deeply, build stronger foundations, learn practical skills, and become more resilient and confident in facing life's challenges. Most of this work happens between appointments, as new insights gradually become new ways of thinking, feeling and living.

Healing is rarely a straight line. It isn't about fixing someone who was broken, but about growing into a stronger, wiser and more integrated version of yourself. Together, we can understand those patterns, keep what serves you, and let go of what no longer does. My hope is that you'll leave with a clearer sense of direction, stronger foundations, and the confidence to keep moving forward long after our work together has finished.

- Dr Nic Giummarra, July 2026